I don’t get the whole gun loving thing, but I know plenty of people who have them responsibly. Just not my thing.
For me it’s a story of sorts on how I landed on this side of the fence.
I grew up with a father who was a gun “nut”. At any given time we would have up 40+ guns in the house. Every weekend was planned around a shoot, or hunting. He was a registered dealer and would appraise estate collections on the side of his day job. My dad picked up this from my grandfather.
My fathers collection was actually pretty incredible. Original (functional) Civil War carbines, muzzleloaders, antique shotguns, WWI and WWII originals, and lots of target competition guns. None of the tactical stuff that is so popular now. I have one from his collection now, my great grandfather’s 1904 single shot rifle he used to hunt with. A unique heirloom.
I grew up shooting competitively. And was pretty damn good. As I got older, family dynamics kicked in and I wanted nothing to do with my parents so I took a long break, and met my wife who was very anti-gun: no nerf guns allowed for my kids, etc. The one thing we did gun-related was put them through the Eddie Eagle program. The kids still remember it to this day. The NRA sucks but the Eddie Eagle program works.
I chose not to introduce my son to shooting the way my day did with me. But my son became interested on his own, mainly from video games like Fortnite to be honest.
I then decided it was time he learned reality. I wanted him to know guns aren’t anything like video games. After many discussions with my wife I have fully introduced my son to shooting and he loves it. It’s a great way for us to spend the day together. We talk the whole time, I get to teach him not just how to shoot but also the massive responsibilities one undertakes when handling a firearm. He now respects it in a way you never do until you go and try it yourself. I also believe that in the world we live in, it can’t hurt to know how to shoot, how powerful guns are, and how to make a gun safe. He is getting good too and may compete himself. He is debating that. To see him shoot his great-great-grandfather’s rifle is also pretty cool.
So for me, it’s become another thing I can do with my son just like riding, and that’s awesome. I passed the torch without it being a focus. I can thank video games for that…? My wife has done a 180. Is she “pro-gun”? No way. But she has been to the range with us and gets it. She isn’t interested in making it a thing but she also sees both sides versus one side of the “argument”. My daughter is younger and smaller and wants to try, but not now. She also has some sensory stuff, especially with loud noises so she won’t be going for a while, if at all. Completely up to her.
I’m just glad it’s another thing I can do with my kid when it’s raining that keeps him away from the online world. And for me selfishly, it was nice to get back into it. It’s fun being good at something. I’m entering my first competitive shoot next month so I’m hoping to see if I can manage now with crappier eyesight.