But advertising is pervasive and kids can easily feel left out when they don't have the same things as their peers. But that is a topic for another post and another day (I could go on forever with what I observe between kids TV, school, and my neices's daycare experiences).
I used to worry about such things until I accepted that I was in charge and I could make the rules in my house. There were and are many times when my children don't have, see, eat what other people do and the answer has always been, "That may be okay for their family, but it's not okay for ours." It has worked remarkably well and has even removed some peer pressure off the kids. I'm not saying things are always easy around here and I'm not saying they don't complain at times. Far from it. But they accept their friends' differences in religion, foods, activities, behaviors etc. and there is much less pressure in keeping up with the fad clothing, toys, gadgets and so on.
Our key was setting rules and sticking to them. Temper tantrums? My kids knew from day 1 that they were guaranteed NOT to get anything they threw a tantrum over. Period. ('Cause I'm stronger, tougher and much more stubborn.)
Now my kids even read labels. They know what they can't have and they know what they can have occasionally. Weighing their options and making choices is something they'll have to do all of their lives... Honestly, the 15 yr old is less adherent when he's out, but he's certainly better than he would have been without those guidelines.
My 'almost 11' year old wanted Froot Loops last week at Shop Rite. She was reading labels and comparing ingredients, food colorings, carbs, sugars and fats. It wasn't the easiest thing for her to do, but
she decided to put the Froot Loops back
😀.
You have a gorgeous baby and a clean slate. Just because it's part of the world does not mean it needs to be a part of your family.
🙂