Dry January 2025 (The Sober Thread)

I didn’t drink friday but had plenty saturday and sunday then two strong ipas monday. My dry January started last night. It wasn’t bad but I have been battling a slight head cold and have been exhausted. Like a fool I went to the gym today…1/2 hour sweaty mess on the treadmill and legs. I really felt awful. I skipped squats…night two and hopefully tomorrow is better.
 
Going off route a bit but for anyone that struggles how does it go for you and what can we do to fix it? For me I don’t crave alcohol until it’s time to wind down/put kids to bed. I do not keep alcohol in the house because I will drink it. I would rather go each night and get two strong or double IPAs. I drink them in under an hour usually and go to bed. I wake up and flush with water all day.
This stuff really sucks. I use my self control to control what I can not control if that makes sense. Iam the same way with food. I won’t eat more if I am portioned but watch out if you put the whole dish in front of me…
 
I did it last year. Started late and only last until the first weekend in February. I had a rough summer, a lot of family issues and loss. I don't want to air all my dirty laundry but I ended up drinking often. It might be time to quit all together. And maybe talk to someone
You dont have to feel thst way anymore, put the plug in the jug. Keep in mind alcohol is not the problem only the solution to a problem. It can get better and honestly your life also gets better.
Im not singling you out but your post has classic tones.
PM me if you want to talk because having an network with like minded people can help immensely.

For anyone that may think they have a problem.
I went for my drinking now i stay for my thinking.
Download this app look for a meeting near you.
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Cutting back, but not going totally dry. Saving it for the once a week cheat meal if I feel the urge. I too have noticed the RHR, stress level, body battery and sleep info from my Garmin Vivoactive. I also notice it from sugar from a dessert. And I just read this, published on 01/01/23
Just read that article. the cancer info is sobering. Bravo to bicycling for publishing.
 
I did it last year. Started late and only last until the first weekend in February. I had a rough summer, a lot of family issues and loss. I don't want to air all my dirty laundry but I ended up drinking often. It might be time to quit all together. And maybe talk to someone
Same. My drinking got worse after mom(dec17), bro(aug18) and dad(june19) passed away all while giving my sister the one finger goodbye. I have lots of great inlaws and a bro still but it was mentally more brutal than I ever imagined.
 
This thread was a revelation to me two years ago and got me kick started to clean up my habits. I wasn't in a bad place, but just wanted to be better. Just part of life now. I've had two drinks in the past year, both Mahattens as toasts to my father's memory on Thanksgiving and Christmas. Otherwise dry and pretty happy to be.

Good luck to everyone on their journeys and thanks to those who - by posting thoughtfully - assisted in mine.
 
There job today was to officiate long jump and triple jump at the largest 1 day indoor track meet in the country. I didn't sit down for 12 hours.

I was looking forward to an NA beverage and a slice of pizza!

Week went by fast. Keep it rolling!
 
If you can deflect to something that you can't drink while doing (like riding the trainer or on a treadmill) - i found that helpful.
I also go to bed much earlier and wake up earlier. I've never had an urge to drink in the morning - so that worked for me.

This is the key, having something to do to break the habit. I read Atomic Habits by James Clear which could be super useful in quitting drinking. Here's a cheat sheet that basically sumarizes the book.

I remember when I was quitting my partner and I would basically have shit talking sessions about drinking to affirm how bad it was for us and how it wasn't worth it (make it unattractive). She was also my accountability partner...nothing worse than trying something new and having the temptation in the house. Sometimes dumping all your alcohol down the drain is a necessary evil but it makes it invisible unless you frequent bars often.
 
This is the key, having something to do to break the habit. I read Atomic Habits by James Clear which could be super useful in quitting drinking. Here's a cheat sheet that basically sumarizes the book.

I remember when I was quitting my partner and I would basically have shit talking sessions about drinking to affirm how bad it was for us and how it wasn't worth it (make it unattractive). She was also my accountability partner...nothing worse than trying something new and having the temptation in the house. Sometimes dumping all your alcohol down the drain is a necessary evil but it makes it invisible unless you frequent bars often.
I have dumped alcohol so many times only to buy it back that night. 5 days for me now. Haven't done this since 2016.
 
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Trying. Yesterday was a tough one. Either way I am still on the wagon. Fighting this stupid cold has been awful. I'm such a baby when it comes to being sick. It's not even that bad, just an annoying head cold/tickle in throat. I just don't do well sitting and that, combined with Sundays being my worst day, wife wanting me to sleep in another room(snoring/coughing), depressing staying away from everyone trying to be the good guy and not get them sick...oof. I was up every 2 hours(maybe because of Advil Cold and Sinus?). Trying to start the week off right but a bit sick(NPI) of this head cold.
 
I’m watching someone close to me quit alcohol for good over the last year. I’m basically a decade plus w/o alcohol and I don’t remember quitting being that hard, but as I watch it happen in front of me it seems far more challenging. I give anyone trying a ton of credit.

I’ve become quite informed about this particular topic of late and I am a complete believer:


I became interested as I heard it was helpful for seasonal depression. I can attest that it works. Big time. I’m not talking about tripping. The opposite in fact. It’s such a low dose that your only thought otherwise is that you are having a good day. Kind of like that first sunny day in the spring when everything is just barely blooming. Sounds like a stretch I know..

Personally, I had a full knee replacement a month ago and I took a very deep dive into cbd/THC instead of opioids. (I took 0 oxy btw). This self prescribed treatment was less than embraced by some, but it made this time easier. I mention this as for me I have never really had strong urges to return to alcohol with 🌱 plant based options standing strong for my personal needs when they arise. In my personal headspace, I find alcohol a way more damaging and dark than cannabis, but years of refer madness / dare has convinced so many that alcohol is a safer bet. It isn’t. It also isn’t harmless.



One of the things that I really never understood until this year, is that any substance impacts each individual differently. With this in mind it’s difficult to really understand how quitting any substance or taking any substance is impacting someone you know. I am fortunate that I quit alcohol quite easily and I wish an ease to quit comes to others considering same.


My friend Mark Taylor is mentioned in this and I found it quite brave that he aired his story so publicly.

Alcohol is fucking up so many people around us all. It fucking sucks.


Here are some audiobooks that I found empowering that might have snippets that could help





 
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My friend Mark Taylor is mentioned in this and I found it quite brave that he aired his story so publicly.

Alcohol is fucking up so many people around us all. It fucking sucks.
As a life-long non-drinker, I always found it interesting that many people do not think drinking is an issue, until it is. Meeting new people, I have been ask this question many times: Do you not drink because you had a problem or you just don't drink? What an odd freaking question and really shows you the mindset of "I will never be the one with the problem".

All that being said, I am not opposed to people drinking because it is pointless. It is so ingrained into culture, so for me reading an article like this, its like, um, no duh.
 
I’m watching someone close to me quit alcohol for good over the last year. I’m basically a decade plus w/o alcohol and I don’t remember quitting being that hard, but as I watch it happen in front of me it seems far more challenging. I give anyone trying a ton of credit.

I’ve become quite informed about this particular topic of late and I am a complete believer:


I became interested as I heard it was helpful for seasonal depression. I can attest that it works. Big time. I’m not talking about tripping. The opposite in fact. It’s such a low dose that your only thought otherwise is that you are having a good day. Kind of like that first sunny day in the spring when everything is just barely blooming. Sounds like a stretch I know..

Personally, I had a full knee replacement a month ago and I took a very deep dive into cbd/THC instead of opioids. (I took 0 oxy btw). This self prescribed treatment was less than embraced by some, but it made this time easier. I mention this as for me I have never really had strong urges to return to alcohol with 🌱 plant based options standing strong for my personal needs when they arise. In my personal headspace, I find alcohol a way more damaging and dark than cannabis, but years of refer madness / dare has convinced so many that alcohol is a safer bet. It isn’t. It also isn’t harmless.



One of the things that I really never understood until this year, is that any substance impacts each individual differently. With this in mind it’s difficult to really understand how quitting any substance or taking any substance is impacting someone you know. I am fortunate that I quit alcohol quite easily and I wish an ease to quit comes to others considering same.


My friend Mark Taylor is mentioned in this and I found it quite brave that he aired his story so publicly.

Alcohol is fucking up so many people around us all. It fucking sucks.


Here are some audiobooks that I found empowering that might have snippets that could help





I find the entire CBD thing interesting. Scientifically, its pure snake-oil, there are zero actual real clinical data that shows it eases pain, primarily because if anyone does try to run a phase 3 trial and it fails, the entire house of cards falls. I think it was hyped in an effort to justify legalization. Well, mission accomplished. If you have a real medical issue, take real drugs. THC on the other hand has benefits, particularly with oncology patients, beyond the anecdotal.

As a life-long non-drinker, I always found it interesting that many people do not think drinking is an issue, until it is. Meeting new people, I have been ask this question many times: Do you not drink because you had a problem or you just don't drink? What an odd freaking question and really shows you the mindset of "I will never be the one with the problem".

All that being said, I am not opposed to people drinking because it is pointless. It is so ingrained into culture, so for me reading an article like this, its like, um, no duh.
I know its cliche, but too much of anything isn't a problem until it is. We live in a culture of more, more, more.
 
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