If you're commuting to NYC erry day, and wife is going to BK, you need to be in a town that has a train line into NY Penn, or, drive to Secaucus/Jersey City/some other Park and Ride. The bus sucks. Port Authority if Hell on Earth. There is no other place worse in NYC, and that includes the cluster fuck that is known as NY Penn Station. I live in Madison, take the train in, and my office is a few blocks north of Grand Central. CitiBike/walk/subway are all about the same duration. My total door to door, that's ass in seat of my car to ass in seat at work is 90 minutes +-5. Dover? forget it. Add 20-30 minutes. If you want sub 60 minutes you need to be closer than Short Hills/Milburn as an example. I can't speak for other lines, just the Morris & Essex. Like you said, add another 30 or so to get to BK. That's all I got. Been here for 13+ years after living in Hoboken. Good luck.