My wife and I are beginning to tire of our increasingly bleak future regarding NYC real estate, and thinking of making the migration to the garden state. Although I'm in jersey often, mostly it's just the ride to the ride. Whether it's driving to Ringwood or Allaire or a cross race, I don't have a lot of time actually spent in the many towns I've driven through. So I'm interested in any suggestions of towns that might appeal to a cyclist who wants a yard for his dog. My wife will have to commute to union square so unfortunately we can't go too far into the sticks, and I'll have to drive to work in Brooklyn for the time being. We don't have kids so schools don't matter. Any suggestions would be appreciated. I'm asking here because I respect the viewpoints of other grownups who choose to hurt themselves on bikes in the woods.
Personally I feel that if you are going to need to go to NYC for work you'll need to be central, somewhere between Morristown to New Brunswick at the extreme ends. Unfortunately I believe the midtown direct service is going away for a limited (haha, hahahahahaha) amount of time, so whatever slight convenience that affords you is lost for now.
I commuted to Brooklyn (Jay Street) and then Downtown (Wall Street) for the better part of 10 years. Here is my summary of those 10 years:
1. Fuck commuting to NYC.
LMK if you have any questions.
I have done every iteration of commuting and here is what I will say:
Midtown: Drive to Newark, hop on NJT train to NYPS.
Downtown: Drive to Newark, hop on path to WTC.
Brooklyn/Jay St: Get to midtown, then take A/C 2 stops into Brooklyn*.
* I understand that Brooklyn is big and this may not work. But my commute to Brooklyn via mass transit was actually faster than downtown. Only when I started driving to Newark did the commute get a bit faster.
Let me list the positives of parking in Newark:
1. Newark sucks.
Again, LMK if you have any questions.
I will now list the various negatives you'll need you need to be aware of:
1. NJT is garbage. It will cost you far more to take NJT than to drive. It is never on time. I have had the train take me 3 hours ONE WAY to get to NYC before
2. Going into Newark early is actually easy. Learn to sneak in between Broad & McCarter and you'll save even more headache.
3. If you park in Newark don't get too close. There is a law of diminishing returns. The closer you park the harder it is to get out.
4. After work route 78 will be backed up 52% of the time.
5. Getting out of NYC via NJT is like going to Vegas and betting the house on 1 color. You've got a 50% chance of success.
6. If you love NYC, you will try to find a new job because commuting into the city will likely kill your appreciation for it.
7. Driving into the city makes every negative above sound like nirvana.
In the end, here is where you should move:
Summit.
Addendum #1: I don't like Summit but it affords you great launching points into NYC.
Addendum #2: If you like to road ride, go further west.
Addendum #3: The guys promoting the shore are ignoring the insane summer traffic.
Additional caveat: I am not super well-versed in the route 80 corridor which offers another option. What I do know if that if you go too far west on 80, the commute gets just stupid after work. If it is possible to WFH or work off hours, explore that as well.