Only reason my wife would make me go is to get back at me for her having to go LOL. We both went to church growing up, but aren't overly religious, but we do want religion in our kids lives. When they get older they can dump it like we did LOL
Wildcat is one of the better parks in NJ, the place is huge and technical with a lot of tough climbs and long descents, the more I go the more I love the place. I don't know it well enough to lead a ride yet, well I could, but we might not hit everything and I would need to keep checking trailforks. I can probably get one of the locals to lead a ride there a bunch of people know it well and are really cool with showing you around.
Hopefully, a few more rides and I will know it much better, finding something new every time I ride there