Without judgement, please let opinions and criticism be shared openly without quickly defending - which would then deter further open discussion.
Totally fair, and we need to listen to what people are saying. There's a good reason why NJ and VT have similar usage numbers and VT has 11x the membership. Also note that a ton of the VT usage is non-VT residents which also makes it more of a stark comparison.
We/JORBA can do a better job at being open about some things. What @KenS lays out above is perfectly valid. As a park lead, if the park says something needs to go, you aren't going to tell them to go scratch because you want the park to work with you/us. We just need to socialize that. I think people understand.
Instead of quoting it repeatedly let me just link this here:
Trail Etiquette Tips from an Old Burnout
A few choice words on how to not be an A-hole on the trail
www.outsideonline.com
RULE 7, folks. If you are so stupid that you cannot comprehend this, don't complain if your shit gets taken down. Good god some people are dumb as bricks.
Actually that whole article is something that resonates with me. I will sum it up for the people that are too lazy to read it:
1. Don't be an asshole
2. Chill the F out
3. Don't be an asshole
Also, if you are following this thread and still have not joined JORBA, you are guilty of both 1 and 3 above.
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