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2) I don't want to hold up people due to my lack of stamina
I would like to ride with some people nearby. Just don't expect meeting before 10 or bombing through Allamuchy.
the first 2 or 3 years of my riding career i rode almost exclusively with one other guy and occasionally with one or two others. then i started too feel like i was getting too comfortable and that's when i started going on message boards to hook up with other riders. the surest way to get good is to ride directly behind someone better than you and try to keep up or directly in front of someone better and try not to get run over. unless a ride is specifically billed as fast or expert, nobody's gonna mind waiting.