Just as Quickly as it Starts, the Weekend Ends
Being it was a kids weekend means that gears shift a little as compared to last weekend, when
@pooriggy was picking
@MissJR up off her ass up at Stephens. As a side note to that, I found out that her username is MISS J.R. and not Miss Junior. Of course, now that I know this, it's obvious, since I know her middle name. I think she should change her username to MIssJ.R. but it is up to her. And wisely, she has not asked me to change it for her, as it would likely morph into "Miss Who Shot JR?" Actually, I kinda like that.
So on alternate weekends, we are DINKS that do whatever the F we want and piss away money on meals that
@Mitch doesn't want to read about. And in between we become parents of 3 that do whatever the F the kids want and piss away money on other stuff that the kids probably won't appreciate until they have kids of their own. This is parenthood, welcome to the club.
We kicked off the weekend with a talent show. Yeah, you read that right. Caught up in the madness of X's Got Talent, we are presented with Long Hill's Got Talent, which I renamed Long HIll's Got (No) Talent before we went. I will admit that I was more than pleasantly surprised, as it turned out to be a generally entertaining 2+ hours of K-through-8 kinds doing various things from singing to dancing to jokes and so on. The 2 best performances were Zac's basketball teammate who plays piano (and has apparently played at Lincoln Center already) and this 7th grader who does freestyle soccer and is the youngest-ever kid to make the Red Bulls Youth something or other. No need to watch this whole video, but this is him below. Just watch like 30 seconds to get his segment. This kid is in 7th grade. That's legit.
For the record, our kids do not participate in said talent show.
Saturday morning came and saw
@Dominique & Zac off to Lewis Morris to do a NICA thing, while I hung out with the kids in the morning. Before Simon woke up I had a sit down with Julia, as she has been lashing out in some ways at her mother and saying some things that you don't want to hear an 11-year-old say. In general, she is pretty much "conflict avoidant" at all times, and given the opportunity she will say what she thinks you want to hear as opposed to discuss any sort of difficult topic. At first she went this direction but she quickly changed gears and let me know in no uncertain terms that she hates swim and feels like she is being forced to do it against her will. I am somewhat reasonably convinced that she is telling me the truth so I will go with it for now, and we will work out alternate ways to keep her active.
Rolling that thought into something
@Mitch said, I never had issues with my mother & step-father, which are the 2 people I consider my parents. My issues are and were with my dad. I guess it's really just "were" as I have no issue with him now. He's not really my dad in any actual sense other than a sperm donor. So to me, my stepfather is my real father. So say otherwise would be a disservice to all the effort & love he put into raising me. We have a good relationship, and me not saying much about their trip here is probably more a testament to their being retired, and frankly, maybe a little boring now. As a stepfather myself now, everything he did means much more to me now than it did then.
Later that morning I completed my HIPAA training. Being in the medical industry now, I guess this is part of the process. This is not to be confused with Hippo Training.
I also took some time to read some of the weekend Times and an article about Indianapolis caught my eye. Tagging
@Carson on this one as I know he is a fan. The article was about the Amazon HQ2 search, which for some reason I find fascinating. I think it may be due to my enjoyment of maps & geography in combination with the tech impact this thing will have. Not sure if people are following this but they have narrowed the list down to 20, with Indy being 1 of the 20 finalists, as well as local places like Newark, NYC, Philly, Boston, and a few in the DC area. Plus some places that suck, notably Columbus, Ohio.
I have somewhat-recently been interested in going there (Indianapolis) because it is the largest US city I have never gone to. The article painted a positive picture of the place and I kind of get the feel that it is somewhat unique in the combination of things it brings together. I am sure I will never move there but I would be interested in hearing what
@Carson has to say about it. As a kid, the only thing I knew about it was the Indy 500, the Colts, and the Pacers. At this point, I know a little more than that but not much. As it turns out, my boss was there Saturday for the Indiana Biomedical Society Conference. Yup, IBS.
Saturday afternoon I dropped Julia off at Chinese school then went for a 90 minute road ride. Weather was good so I had no excuse to stay indoors. Ride was fine, more or less nothing of note. Felt good to be outside again and at this point in the year I think things are going in the right direction. What that means, who knows. But I am enjoying the saddle time and the bike feels better and better under me by the week. Again, whatever that means exactly. After Chinese school we went to the park in town. D & Zac & Simon rode behind the municipal building while Julia and I walked with the basketball. We wrapped up the day shooting some baskets.
This morning (Sunday) I held down the fort while D went to the YMCA to spin & yoga. Kids slowly woke up while I read the paper and took their places with me on the couch. Eventually I got to the basement in the afternoon and watched episode 5 of Dark. Few things came together here, though they are starting to introduce so many characters I am not sure I follow them all, much like
@JimN and
@gtluke have suggested. And yeah, now that you mention it, they're all white and almost entirely in shape. I think when this is over I may re-watch it with D. I was unsure at first because it started to get a little too fruit-loops-ish but it didn't go in that Twin Peaks direction like I feared it might. At least not yet.
D was given the rumor that the YMCA will have new spin bikes in 8 days. Is it wrong that this excites me? Adding to the indoor madness is my purchase of a dongle and a friend's Swift account I am looking to try this week. Indoor riding: Turning the corner in 2018.