JerseyPete
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Has @rick81721 shown up to say "more than half the women in my administration are women"?
Stop hiding in here.
Has @rick81721 shown up to say "more than half the women in my administration are women"?

Where are all of the comments that are so horrible? She is talking straight up. matter a fact, no sugar coating it. That being said, it is a stark contrast between her and sturmAs soon as I saw the title of this thread I knew someone would comment on her. I watched all of them and paused at one point to tell my wife that she was really coming across as a rotten human being. I saw a few people commenting that no one would be complaining if it were a guy saying those things or acting that way, but I totally disagree with that. I think anyone who acts as toxic as she does in multiple scenes of those films is just a full stop asshole, guy or girl. The part where she tells the other girl she was looking forward to the opportunity for payback after that girl cut her off at Chequemagon was unreal. I wouldn't have been surprised if Lifetime kicked her out of the series and cut ties with her after a statement like that because threatening other riders is not exactly an "on brand" message.
Where are all of the comments that are so horrible? She is talking straight up. matter a fact, no sugar coating it. That being said, it is a stark contrast between her and sturm
She definitely appears to be a fierce competitor. Didn't dislike her overall, but she said some things in 5 that were a little off putting toward her fellow competitors. But I feel you like you do have to have some sort of competitive fire to be good at racing, so it may just be that coming through.I had listened to her a bunch on some podcasts and didn’t have a great view of her. So when I heard some saying she wasn’t coming across as very likeable on this series I was not surprised.
I only got through 3 so far, but I think she just seems like a pretty fierce competitor. If anything my view of her improved. lol.
She definitely appears to be a fierce competitor. Didn't dislike her overall, but she said some things in 5 that were a little off putting toward her fellow competitors. But I feel you like you do have to have some sort of competitive fire to be good at racing, so it may just be that coming through.
I had listened to her a bunch on some podcasts and didn’t have a great view of her. So when I heard some saying she wasn’t coming across as very likeable on this series I was not surprised.
I only got through 3 so far, but I think she just seems like a pretty fierce competitor. If anything my view of her improved. lol.
Maybe a a bit harsh and a threat or two but nothing crazy. One nice thing is you don't feel like she is putting on a show for the camera, just telling it like it is.She definitely appears to be a fierce competitor. Didn't dislike her overall, but she said some things in 5 that were a little off putting toward her fellow competitors. But I feel you like you do have to have some sort of competitive fire to be good at racing, so it may just be that coming through.
The overt threat to the other racer was the main thing. And the way she reacted to Otto's result at Leadville was just bullshit - she basically acted like she was upset because someone as far behind her in skill as Otto won and she had a bad day. Competitive or not, that's just a total asshole reaction. And to be fair, some of my reaction might be on me - like after hearing her say those things, I kind of looked at other things she said that could be considered just the evidence of a fierce competitor and just thought they were more her general personality, which may or may not be true. Like I couldn't hear her talk about herself and not have the impression that she's someone trying to convince other people she's somethign that she's not really sure she is herself. And I think there is a HUGE shadow over her from Swenson being who he is that she has a lot of trouble dealing with. Like when she said she was the one everyone was looking at as the one to beat. Well, if they were, it was probably because the one they all really feared tragically wasn't there anymore (Wilson.) And in all honesty, I don't think they were thinking that at all, especially not after Crushar. And I don't think it's a coincidence that it was after Crushar that she seemed to become a lot more confrontational because I think she realized they didn't see her as any better than they were. And again, this is just my reaction, and I freely admit it's an interpretation others don't need to share. But it all kind of seemed to me like she was figuratively jumping up and down and screaming "Look at me! Look at me!" once she was no longer the one in the lead. And as for the whole excuse that she's a fierce competitor and that's what we're seeing in her comments, I call bullshit on that because you don't need to be an asshole to be the best. That's that whole Michael Jordan thing - people excused a lot of shitty behavior bordering on sociopathy in that guy because he was really good. But I refuse to believe being a champion goes hand in hand with being an asshole. There are too many examples of that not being the case to support that notion.Where are all of the comments that are so horrible? She is talking straight up. matter a fact, no sugar coating it. That being said, it is a stark contrast between her and sturm
I think she said, if Hannah can win that race, then I should be able to win that race.And the way she reacted to Otto's result at Leadville was just bullshit - she basically acted like she was upset because someone as far behind her in skill as Otto won and she had a bad day.
This is a perfect example of my point in my last post - all of this shit is a matter of interpretation. I think in this case, you're definitely being more positive-minded on it while I'm picking up an impression and running with it at full speed. I mean, in looking at it, I'm making some pretty significant intuitive leaps, right? I'm assigning psychological motivations without direct evidence, which is probably not justifiable. But even being aware of that, I still believe it's true. I think Mr. Shakespeare said it best - something about protesting too much. She comes across as very self-assured but her default presentation of herself is that same super competitiveness you referenced in a way that denigrates her competition. Those two things don't go together - if you're truly sure of your abilities, you don't say things like someone else's win is proof of your ability to win. And you sure as hell don't feel the need to threaten another rider for an accident (she actually said something like "I believe you didn't mean it but it felt personal." What the hell does that even mean?) At least not if you have an ounce of emotional intelligence. So that's my rationale, admittedly based on my own interpretation of what I watched.I think she said, if Hannah can win that race, then I should be able to win that race.
I personally think that’s awesome. Super competitive.
In some ways her comments are refreshing compared to the the PR team advised responses of someone like Kate Courtney. But like you said, she doesn’t need to be an asshole.This is a perfect example of my point in my last post - all of this shit is a matter of interpretation. I think in this case, you're definitely being more positive-minded on it while I'm picking up an impression and running with it at full speed. I mean, in looking at it, I'm making some pretty significant intuitive leaps, right? I'm assigning psychological motivations without direct evidence, which is probably not justifiable. But even being aware of that, I still believe it's true. I think Mr. Shakespeare said it best - something about protesting too much. She comes across as very self-assured but her default presentation of herself is that same super competitiveness you referenced in a way that denigrates her competition. Those two things don't go together - if you're truly sure of your abilities, you don't say things like someone else's win is proof of your ability to win. And you sure as hell don't feel the need to threaten another rider for an accident (she actually said something like "I believe you didn't mean it but it felt personal." What the hell does that even mean?) At least not if you have an ounce of emotional intelligence. So that's my rationale, admittedly based on my own interpretation of what I watched.
In the first two episodes, Villafane really did seem like a tool. Very full of herself, very narcissistic. I thought after Leadville, she did show some growth and maturation and I started to soften towards her. But that whole threat at Chequamegon was a bit over the top. I can understand the post race adrenaline but I wanted someone to tell her : “yeah Sofia, the only goal the other rider had was to make sure you get knocked out of the race. Uh okay.” She is still young though. Put her next to seasoned pros like Sara Sturm and RoseI had listened to her a bunch on some podcasts and didn’t have a great view of her. So when I heard some saying she wasn’t coming across as very likeable on this series I was not surprised.
I only got through 3 so far, but I think she just seems like a pretty fierce competitor. If anything my view of her improved. lol.
Season pro Sarah strum? Lol aren’t why like the same age. Strum has been prevalent the last few years but I think Sofia may have been racing longerIn the first two episodes, Villafane really did seem like a tool. Very full of herself, very narcissistic. I thought after Leadville, she did show some growth and maturation and I started to soften towards her. But that whole threat at Chequamegon was a bit over the top. I can understand the post race adrenaline but I wanted someone to tell her : “yeah Sofia, the only goal the other rider had was to make sure you get knocked out of the race. Uh okay.” She is still young though. Put her next to seasoned pros like Sara Sturm and Rose
Grant and she looks like a whiny kid, then you see that Hannah Otto a year younger than Sofia…..
Oops. Yup she’s only 29. Thought she was 35Season pro Sarah strum? Lol aren’t why like the same age. Strum has been prevalent the last few years but I think Sofia may have been racing longer
they are funny as shit, but scott is the one who drives it home, he really sounds like he does not give a F.Side note, have any of you given Dylan Johnson's podcast "bonk bro's" a listen? He gives, seemingly logical, insight on the whole "spirit of gravel" and "aero bar" controversies at lifetime as well as professional cyclists pay disparities. It's a good listen if you're into that sort of thing.
Side note, have any of you given Dylan Johnson's podcast "bonk bro's" a listen?
its good background stuff doeI tried. I can’t take the “bro”, “like”, and “dude” every 3 seconds. It’s brutal to listen to. especially Scott McGill. I’m surprised DJ isn’t doing a better job because his YouTube channel is pretty good.