Well boys, I would venture to guess that I have been married longer than most of you. We have already passed a few of the big milestones b-days and anniversaries. So, although I would kill for a football or a new set of wheels for my husbands bike, most women would not. Kidding.
Seriously, just ask her. Point blank, is she speaking in girl or not. I wanted a small party for my 40th, and a new bike. So I just told Chris exactly what I wanted. And guess what, I got exactly what I wanted.
She may not want a fuss. I did not want a fuss for 30 either. Surviving until 40, needed a party! And a new bike. Wait until 50....Big f'ing party...and a new bike!
The spa day sounds great. Ask her about the party, if she really means no, I like the weekend get away idea.
Just 2 cents from the old married lady.