tonyride
Don't piss off the red guy
I've been using my home made contraption for decades and it works fine. What I do is use two large washers up top and one at the bottom. The reason I use two up top is that's where I tighten up the screw to compress the headset and I put a layer of heavy grease between the 2 washers. This way as I'm turning the bolt I'm allowing the washers to rub against either rather than the washer rub and scrape against the top surface of the cup. I suppose you can use a nylon washer in place of the grease. I found washers with as much surface metal as possible to evenly distribute the force and to prevent bending. So whatever diameter bolt you get look for washers that just barely fit over the shaft with OD that's well bigger than the steer tube in case it slides around a bit.