I love you all and over the years y'all been like a family to me. This is gonna be sorta long, and could have gone in the frown thread, but in the end I think you'll smile.
I have two girls, 16 and 10. My older daughter is made of stone, thick skin, cold heart, and an attitude that will drive you crazy. She wont think twice about throat punching anyone who messes with her or her friends. My younger daughter is the absolute opposite. Big heart, caring and extremely sensitive. Like, over the top sensitive. Anywho, heres where the frown part comes in.
Beginning of the school year, she's in class and is the only one who answers some random question correctly. Johnny Douchebag goes and tells her that she's a fat pig and no one cares if she lives or dies.
Just because she answered correctly.
She shuts down. Totally. Stops doing all the things she loves to do, and most concerning to us, stops eating. Not totally, but she goes cold turkey on all the things she enjoyed.
My wife and I catch on to this and spring into action, calling the doctor, school nurse and other powers that be. I'm not gonna lie, it was bad for a while, we couldnt believe how a 9 year old girl who was full of life could simply shut down. Deep breathes, fast forward to the end of the school year.
9 months of therapy and seeing a nutrionist, we are getting back to where we were a year ago. So I share this pic, for the first time in like 9 months, she wants her favorite frozen pizza foe dinner. 2 slices turned into 4. It's stupid stufd like this that makes me smile.
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Thanks for reading.