I‘m sorry but two disciplines are incongruous. Riding on a fixed stationary trainer causes constant and consistent pressure and vibration simply not possible when riding IRL. Same bike, same fit, same fitness, same day yet I can go for hours out on the road w/out any pain or numbness but I can’t cross the 45 min mark before I experience one or the other...and by 60 min, both on the trainer. Like clockwork. That’s not so say that it happens to everyone, there are plenty of folks here that can ride several hours indoors with the same setup I do yet they don’t experience the same issue(s). I think it may have something to do with the individuals physiology. How or should I say where their nerve and circulatory system pathways are located relative to the touch points. I learned the hard way after eye surgery that the path the nerves develop in the body are very different person to person after having one too many cut.
riding outside is generally easier on your contact points. You stand, spin backwards, take more breaks, etc. Like you said you can ride outside for hours but inside things flare up. (Paraphrasing). But extended session
inside expose a poor fit. That’s what I noticed on my cross bike, which is what I’ve been dialing in. Now, when I take it back to a cross practice or race I may feel like adjusting something but probably only a minor tweak to the handlebars or saddle.
This is just my observation. Everyone is different especially with things like this.