This has been a good thread with quality information. I'll give some advice that works for me, and I learned it from a pro DH'er, Gene Hamilton. Sing a really stupid song and smile when you hit the techy stuff. Sing out loud! Really this helps you relax. If you can laugh at yourself all the better! I had the same problem with the fear of techy down hill and while it is really silly to be singing nursery rhymes, or the circus song (the one you think of when the cicrus starts up) on the trail but this works if tensing up is a problem. Now when I ride with others I teach them this and they love it.
Pixychick's advice on visualization is great too. Give it a try. Singing and visualization won't cost you anything.
If you can take a MTB course Gene's is excellent, you will learn so much and he teaches drills that you can practice to continue your improvement.
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Riding with others is also a great way to learn, don't be afraid to ask for a demonstration, or to repeat a section.