Is moving an option?
unfortunately, NO its not, with both of our work locations this is about the area I am stuck with :/
This * 100. Find a secluded bike path that is flat with nice views. Drive into NYC and take her on the Greenway if you have to. Only way to get a beginner to like biking. If they have to deal with cars and hills, they're gonna quit before they begin. I took my gf on the Heritage Trail in NY, beach path on Staten Island, and Greenway. When she started to like it, we did twisties at Six Mile, Anthill at Stewart, and Minnewaska big loop. Start them easy if you want them to get hooked, then they'll want to get better themselves so they're not slowing you down.
Before you use this plan, make sure you're ok losing your bike or needing to get her a better one soon.
this is exactly what i want to do, just not sure where to go locally, she wont want to drive far to try it out (even tho at this point she bought a nice bike and has kind of committed to it . . . ) I grew up in Kinnelon so i know the areas farther north, but again, drive time is a killer for her.
as for the bike issue, i think im safe, she bought a pretty nice trek lexa and is almost a foot shorter than i am, she will never fit on my bike!
Liberty state park is a nice safe place to ride for a beginner. You can ride on the paths and don't have to ride on the road with cars. 1 loop is around 10 miles and there is a beer garden right near by. Plus it is open until 10pm so you can ride after work
I used to ride a couple days a week at liberty state park when i was living in hoboken going to college, good ride, typically a bit much traffic getting there from home but i will keep it in mind for sure, i dont remember a 10 mile loop around tho, maybe its just been too long :/
thanks for the ideas guys, so far i see the following
Warniaco park (thanks iggy)
columbia trail
Minnewaska lake loop
@MissJR, we live in Union so Morristown is less than half an hour, very doable if i can talk her into riding with other ladies instead of me, that may be a challenge.