Dear Mare,
Why don't women post on MTBNJ? I mean a few do, however it seems like this website is a dude ranch. Are men just more immature and spend so much more time being stupid on the internet? I see women out on road rides and on mtb's however posts from women are as scarce as
@soundz dating calendar.
Signed, Why can't a woman be more like a man
Dear Why can't a woman be more like a man,
Why don't women post? Maybe they're too busy playing Donna Reed. Oh wait, you really want help here. Ok then. I very much have a guy mentality when it comes to many things so maybe I am the wrong person to ask, but I'll give you some answers anyway.
I've been on mtbnj for years and I have to admit, I almost never ever, browse the women's forum. I know what the intent is and it's a great place to make women feel welcome, but since it's so inactive, I kind of feel like there's no reason to go there. I understand your whole point is "how do we get the forum more active" (or women posting on mtbnj in general), but I just wanted to tell you my reason for staying out of there. When I'm not on here it's cause life takes over, but I love posting a lot and goofing with everyone. I have a really warped sense of humor and was largely molded by my brother who got me into mountain biking so to me, this place is just like home. Awwww, right????
So why so few women posting? Maybe they're intimidated. I know, I know...people are really laid back and welcoming here, but still, women can be intimdated no matter what. I know I used to and sometimes still do feel intimidated. I think moreso though they just don't care. Maybe some are not into biking enough to get wrapped up on here. And those that are hardcore don't eat, sleep, and breathe bikes necessarily. A LOT of guys who bike tend to dream about bikes all day, talk about trails all day, research bike parts all day, fantasize about their next frame all day... It monopolizes your world, so being here is just part of life like brushing your teeth. So what we need to do is somehow make being on here part of a woman's daily ritual like brushing their teeth???
I'd say let's do a poll, but how do we get them on here to participate?