I have an older GTI, have driven a new R, and spending an extra $15k for the R is just not worth it. Marginally faster than the GTI, and handling is a wash. The best AWD car built on that platform is by far the RS3. That car is just bonkers fast, the motor sounds amazing, and it corners and goes. Some will say that its not "special enough" for an RS car, but I'll disagree on that point. That car will shame most things on the road. Quite honestly, the only reason I didn't pull the trigger was price. Pushing high 60's out the door with tax was too hard to swallow, that's almost certified Porsche money. My wife, the voice of reason said "if you're going to spend Porsche money, just spend a little more and get a Porsche". God bless that woman. Reasonably priced certified ones should be available in a year though.
Thanks for your input. An RS3 in not in my cards, but they are awesome cars. The 255/235 front/rear staggered tires are a bit odd. But I think I'd get over it. Having my M2 in the garage for fun days, I think the GTI would be the perfect DD. Practical enough, cheap enough, and fun enough.
I realized today that in trips to Vermont, Tennessee, and Indy this year cost me $800 in fuel in the Raptor!